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Jul 11th, 2010 by niceyfemme

The hardest part of moving on is the first few days, for some it can be weeks or months or even years. For me and Mommy, these last two days since Bambi left has been very hard. It hurts to be in the house because there’s no Bambi waiting for us to come home or to get out of our rooms in the morning. I see her in every corner of the house and it literally hurts as in I feel something that crushes my heart. I feel there’s something stuck in my throat every time I try to control myself.

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I’ve been stuffing my mouth with food all day. I really am an emotional eater. I’m scared I have to reach for quick weight loss pills as I have to lose the weight before I go back to Singapore. I’m too emotional. Mommy handles this better than I do. She can control herself. Well I love Bambi so much I’m still in denial sometimes.

I hope as days pass by the pain will lessen more and more but I am sure about one thing; that Bambi will always be that someone who loved us unconditionally and we will never ever forget her. Good thing I have so many photos and videos of her with us we could keep forever.

If a man wants you
Feb 14th, 2010 by niceyfemme

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.

Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition to save you from heartache.

Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant to be.

Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve,
then heck no, you cant be friends. A friend wouldnt mistreat a friend.

Don’t settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.

Don’t stay because you think it will get better.
You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.

The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Read the rest of this entry »

I knew it
Feb 5th, 2010 by niceyfemme

So I received a call from J a couple hours ago…..

See? I told her this will happen and I have warned her over this but the stubborn woman that she is she went through with it and now less than a week since my fight with Kingkong, I’ve been proven right once again!

I was sooo tempted to tell her “I told you so!” but I stopped myself. It’s not what she needs right now. But it could have felt sooo good to say it out loud. 🙂 Vindication at it’s best form.

Oopppsss! I shouldn’t be feeling this way. Blah! Whatever.

I realized that life is what we make of it. We can choose to live our lives with less drama, simpler and more interesting. Kinda contradicting but works for me when you analyze it well.

This is my goal in my life. Make my life simpler and less complicated. Keep the few good people who genuinely love me close. I believe this will equal to happiness and contentment. And that for me is the primary goal of every single person on Earth. Most people just get distracted with other stuff. We must focus then.

But.

Easier said than done.

A work in progress. Harhar. Blank.

Nakapagtataka…
Nov 22nd, 2009 by niceyfemme

Nakapagtataka – Rachel Alejandro

Limbo rock…..
Nov 13th, 2009 by niceyfemme

Yeah it’s the situation now….

Most of the time it’s close to perfection when no other factors are concerned but that’s not how the world goes…

So this time it’s not doing fine.

It’s a lose-lose situation.

Compromise? Not sure it’s possible for someone with a close mind.

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Better not to think about it.

Just go on, a day at a time.

“Being brokenhearted is like having a broken pair of ribs: on the outside it looks like there’s nothing wrong. But what no one knows is that every single breath hurts.”

Like anything else, this too shall pass.

In a relationship, you have the power to choose to either….
Nov 12th, 2009 by niceyfemme

Be with someone who’s proud to have you OR

Someone who keeps on telling people you guys are just friends?

I know… B*Ll$H!t right?

There’s this person I know. He’s a local celebrity. Not THAT popular but he is known by Filipinos. There was a time when he was really popular.

Now, he’s there but most of the time you don’t even notice him.

This guy, I’ve known him since year 2003 and I thought I knew him quite well. I’m a fan of very few artists and I can say I’m a fan of his. He is really talented.

yeah you “eated” it.

There are many talented artists around but what makes some stand out is their attitude. I know he is nice. It’s just that I didn’t know a side of his personality until recently.

He was in a ten year relationship with his now ex-girlfriend. Ten years! A very long time. Alright, given that it didn’t work out, can you please wait a few months before getting in a new relationship? Or whatever you may call it?

This guy, after a very short period of time, started showing people around that he is dating a new girl. He actually only admitted the break up with the ex so people won’t see it wrong when he’s seen with this new girl.

He said their “just friends who are enjoying each other’s company”.

If I’m the ex-girlfriend who spent ten freaking long years with you and you cannot wait for a few months to be with someone else, then what kind of guy did I spend my ten years with?

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Now after a few months, he was interviewed again, the show announced that he admitted to be in a relationship with this new girl. I thought, well, what’s new to announce? Everybody knows about it already. It will just be a formalization kind of admission.

Then in the interview, he again, ran around in bushes. Said, we’re friends, we enjoy each other’s company B-$sh!t again. Then he was asked, “So is she your girlfriend?” He replied, “Uhhh, well I have a lot of girl friends, I guess you could call it that.” C’mon!!!!!!!!

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When you were new in local show business, they asked you if you were committed, you said, “No, I’m free. My girlfriend and I broke up already.” Turned out to be a big lie as that relationship continue for six years more.

Bottom line.

Don’t lie.

You’re no hearthrob. People appreciate you because of your talent,not because of your personal life.

As for the ex-girlfriend, I feel you girl. Ten years and he cannot even wait a few weeks to replace you. I’d hate to be you right now.

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My boyfriend, every time he introduces me to anyone, he always say oh so proudly that I’m his girlfriend. Says it with a proud smile. Recently, he even jokingly said I am already his wife, then said future wife. When he was chatting to his sister, he told her that I will be her sister in law.

Any woman would want to be in a secured relationship. You know a man is serious with the relationship, first sign is his admission of what you guys have. If he is denying it, be ready for a heartbreak.

I still appreciate his talent. But it’s a different level now. I’m so disappointed with a part of his personality. Maybe he’s just a guy being a guy. It’s just that I thought he was different.

I am a woman too. I’m hurt because of what you did to your ex. I despise what you did to her.

I can’t and won’t accept it if the guy I’m with will keep whatever we have in darkness.

“In love, what matters is not your success, but your significance.”

I’d ONLY choose to be with THE GUY who is proud to call me HIS.

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